I’ve been thinking about all of this for awhile, watching the headlines and the articles and the conversations that have popped up in my Facebook newsfeed over the past few weeks. It seems there are “scandals” pretty much everywhere in North American Christendom right now.
And there have been dozens more over the years (like that one time John Piper said you shouldn’t allow yourself to be influenced by women who write commentaries, especially if you know them or that one time Rob Bell wrote a book about hell – which was also about heaven). And it seems like pretty much everyone else in North American Christendom (including me) has an opinion about all of it – regardless of whether or not they know Michael, Mark, Victoria, John, Rob, or anyone else in the headlines.
So the questions on the table this week are:
I’ll preface all of this by saying that I am still working thru these questions, so please take anything I say about this with a grain of salt and a lot of prayer and discernment, ok? I am thinking out loud this week. My blog, my space, 5th amendment. I am Happy the person, not Happy the pastor, or Happy the anything else (at least for this series of posts), ok? No extra weight to these words. They are just thoughts.
Before we can really look at any specific scandals, I think we actually need to start with some definitions. I looked up gossip and slander and information in Merriam-Webster’s online dictionary, and here are the distinctions I think we can make:
And here is one more definition we’re going to need; it’s not relevant to this conversation yet, but it will be soon:
So how do we discern what is gossip, what is slander, and what is simply information… especially on the internet?!
Well… I could just say “good luck with that” – and that would probably be mostly accurate.
But I think there are some factors we can keep in mind when we’re reading articles or watching videos online that will help:
All of these factors matter in determining whether what you are reading or watching is accurate, factual, informational, gossipy, or slanderous.
So now that we’ve laid a foundation for how to categorize what you’re reading/seeing/hearing – let’s move on to “does it matter?!” More on that in the next post – so stay tuned!
In the meantime, I would love to hear your thoughts. Are these definitions helpful to you? Why or why not? And what do you think – is it gossip or slander to express a negative opinion about famous people?
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